Building A Spiritual Household

Building A Spiritual Household

(Ephesians 2:19-22)

By Theodore Jao Quist

Introduction

The concept of developing a congregation where members see themselves as one family is deeply rooted in the biblical metaphor of the church as a spiritual household. Ephesians 2:19-22 provides a foundational understanding of this vision: "Now, therefore, you are no longer strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, having been built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ Himself being the chief cornerstone, in whom the whole building, being fitted together, grows into a holy temple in the Lord, in whom you also are being built together for a dwelling place of God in the Spirit" (Eph. 2:19-22 NKJV). This passage offers essential insights into how to build a church community that feels and functions like a family.

I. Foundation Of The Church - Importance Of Grounding The Congregation In The Teachings Of The Apostles And Prophets

The strength and unity of any congregation are significantly influenced by its foundation. As Paul emphasises, the church must be built on the teachings of the apostles and prophets provided by Christ, with He Himself as the chief cornerstone. This means that the doctrinal integrity of the church must be maintained by adhering strictly to the Scriptures. The teachings of the apostles’ doctrine (Acts 2:42) provide the doctrinal and moral framework necessary for a healthy church life. Paul writes, "All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness" (2 Timothy 3:16 NKJV). Regular Bible study sessions, sermons, and classes that focus on these teachings help ground the congregation in solid biblical truth.

II. Centring The Church On Jesus Christ As The Chief Cornerstone

Jesus Christ, as the chief cornerstone, is the most critical part of the church's foundation. Everything the church believes and practices must agree with His teachings and example. Peter reminds us, "Therefore it is also contained in the Scripture, 'Behold, I lay in Zion a chief cornerstone, elect, precious, and he who believes on Him will by no means be put to shame'" (1 Peter 2:6 NKJV). This centrality of Christ must be reflected in worship and the daily lives of the members. Emphasising Christ in every aspect of church life ensures that the congregation remains focused on the true purpose and mission of the church.

III. Building Together - Unity And Community Within The Church

To build a congregation that functions as a family, unity and a sense of community are indispensable. Paul urges the church to maintain unity: "Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace" (Ephesians 4:3 NKJV). Practical steps to foster unity include organising regular fellowship activities, such as sharing common meals once in a while, social events, and small group gatherings. These activities allow members to build relationships and support one another.

Encouraging open and honest communication within the church also strengthens unity. Members should feel comfortable sharing their joys, struggles, and needs with one another. James advises, "Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed" (James 5:16 NKJV). Establishing a culture of mutual support and prayer helps to knit the congregation together into a cohesive family.

IV. Encouraging Members To See Themselves As Part Of The Spiritual Household

It is essential for each member to feel a sense of belonging within the church. Paul states, "So we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another" (Romans 12:5 NKJV). Encouraging members to participate in various church activities and ministries helps them feel more connected. When individuals serve in the church, whether through teaching, hospitality, music, or other roles, they see themselves as integral parts of the church family.

Moreover, the church leadership should consistently reinforce the message that every member is valuable and necessary. As Paul writes, "There should be no schism in the body, but that the members should have the same care for one another" (1 Corinthians 12:25 NKJV). Recognizing and celebrating the contributions of each member fosters a sense of unity and mutual respect.

V. Growth Into A Holy Temple - Spiritual Maturity And Growth As A Congregation

For the church to grow into a holy temple, the spiritual maturity of its members must be a priority. Paul exhorts the Ephesians to "grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ" (Ephesians 4:15 NKJV). Practical steps to encourage spiritual growth include providing regular Bible study opportunities, discipleship programs, and mentoring relationships. Older, more mature Christians can mentor younger believers, offering guidance and support as they grow in their faith.

Regular preaching and teaching that challenges the congregation to live out their faith in practical ways is also crucial. As James instructs, "But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves" (James 1:22 NKJV). Encouraging members to apply biblical principles in their daily lives helps them grow spiritually and strengthens the overall spiritual health of the church.

VI. Practical Steps To Nurture A Spiritually Vibrant Community

Creating an environment where members are encouraged to develop their spiritual gifts and use them for the edification of the church is essential. Paul writes, "Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them" (Romans 12:6 NKJV). Offering workshops and classes that help members identify and develop their spiritual gifts can be very beneficial.

Additionally, fostering a culture of continuous learning and spiritual development is vital. Providing access to resources such as Christian literature, online courses, and conferences can help members deepen their understanding of the faith and grow in their relationship with God.

 VII. Dwelling Place Of God - Creating An Environment Conducive To The Presence Of The Holy Spirit

For the church to truly be a dwelling place of God, it must create an environment that invites the Holy Spirit. This involves both corporate worship and individual lifestyle choices. Paul reminds the Corinthians, "Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?" (1 Corinthians 3:16 NKJV). Ensuring that worship services are Spirit-led and Christ-centred is critical. Worship should be heartfelt and sincere, focusing on glorifying God and inviting His presence.

Furthermore, teaching and encouraging members to live holy and consecrated lives is essential. Peter writes, "But as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct" (1 Peter 1:15 NKJV). When members live lives that reflect the holiness of God, it creates an environment where the Holy Spirit can move freely.

VIII. Worship And Spiritual Practices That Invite God's Presence

Regular corporate worship that includes singing, prayer, breaking of bread, giving and the proclamation of God's Word is fundamental. Paul encourages the Colossians, "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord" (Colossians 3:16 NKJV). Worship services should be designed to foster a deep sense of reverence and connection with God.

In addition to corporate worship, personal spiritual practices such as daily Bible reading, prayer, and fasting should be encouraged. Jesus taught, "But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly" (Matthew 6:6 NKJV). When individuals cultivate their personal relationship with God, it strengthens the collective spiritual life of the church.

Conclusion

Building a congregation where members see themselves as one family requires intentional effort and reliance on biblical principles. By grounding the church in the teachings of the apostles and prophets, centering on Jesus Christ as the cornerstone, fostering unity and community, encouraging spiritual growth, and creating an environment that invites the presence of the Holy Spirit, the church can grow into a vibrant, spiritually mature family of believers.

As we embrace this journey, let us remember that the church is not just a building or an organization, but a living, breathing community of God's people. By working together and relying on God's guidance, we can build a spiritual household that reflects the love, unity, and holiness of our Lord.